How do you ask a godfather and godmother for your little one?

Choosing a godparent for your little one is one of the most heartfelt decisions you'll make as a new parent. There are many ways on how to ask someone to be a godparent in a way that truly captures the honour of the question.

Below you'll find everything you need to ask the question: what the godparent role actually means today, how to choose the right person, and the most beautiful ways to pop the question , whether you're asking a godmother or a godfather.

What does being a godparent mean today?

The tradition of godparents goes back centuries. When a baby was baptised, a godfather and godmother were appointed as witnesses, this is much like the role of witnesses at a wedding. In many families, they were also named as guardians, people who would step in and help raise the little one if anything were to happen to the parents.

Today, the role has evolved, but the warmth behind it hasn't changed one bit. Godparents are the people you trust most: the friend who always picks up the phone at midnight, the aunt who already knows your little one's favourite bedtime story. They show up at every milestone: christenings, first birthdays, communions, and every quiet Tuesday in between.

Being asked to be a godparent is a genuine honour. It says: I trust you, I love you, and I want you in my child's life for all the best moments. That's worth asking in a special way.

Make the moment as special as the person

Asking someone to be a godparent is a beautiful thing to do. At YourSurprise, you'll find a whole range of personalised gifts perfect for asking a godfather or godmother: from engraved keyrings and jewellery to chocolate gifts and baby clothing you can make completely your own. Find the most special way for your beloved one.

How to ask someone to be a godfather

So you've chosen your godfather-to-be. Now for the fun part: asking him. The moment you pop the question is one he'll want to remember, so it's worth making it personal.

Do it with a personalised gift

A thoughtful personalised gift does all the talking for you. Something engraved with the little one's name, or a message like "Will you be my godfather?" , makes the question feel as big as it is.

A leather keyring engraved with the baby's name is a classic. Every time he reaches for his keys, he'll be reminded of the role he said yes to. A personalised Parker pen engraved with their name is another beautiful option AND he can use it to sign the christening register, making the full circle complete.

Do it with something he loves

If your godfather-to-be is a beer enthusiast, a Belgian beer package paired with an engraved beer glass makes for a brilliant "will you be my godfather?" moment. Or go for an XXL Côte d'Or chocolate bar personalised with his name and your message. You can even have it spelled with a chocolate telegram.

How to ask someone to be a godmother

Asking someone to be a godmother is one of those moments that deserves to feel as special as she already is to you.

With a personalised babygrow

Picture this: you hand her a little gift bag. She pulls out a personalised babygrow that reads "Will you be my godmother?" or "Godmother [her name]" . Well, she can't say no to that!

With something sweet

A Milka Chocolate box personalised with her name and your message is a warm, joyful way to ask. It's the kind of gift that says you thought about her specifically, and that matters. After all, who doesn’t love chocolate?

With something she'll wear forever

If you want the moment to be truly lasting, a piece of jewellery is hard to beat. A mother/daughter bracelet set, one for the godmother, one for your little one to grow into, is something that truly lasts forever. She'll wear it proudly, and one day your little one will wear hers too.

With a bottle of wine

A personalised wine gift set with a message like "For the babysitting days ahead" is thoughtful and a little playful. You can even personalised the wine’s label or have the question engraved on the glass.

Some more ideas to help you find the perfect one

For the godfather:

• A personalised hip flask engraved with his new title and the baby's name
• An engraved chopping board is perfect for the godfather who loves to cook
• A photo jigsaw puzzle with the question printed on it in a fun design
• A personalised travel mug for the godfather who's always on the go

For the godmother:

• A personalised tote bag she can use every day with a sweet message printed on it
• An engraved necklace pendant with the baby's name
• A personalised fleece blanket printed with a photo
• A custom photo book filled with your friendship memories and a final page asking the big question
• A personalised scented candle with a label that reads "For the world's best godmother-to-be"

Browse more gifts for godparents, there are plenty of options that can be personalised with the question!